Help Vulnerable People
If you are a victim of Domestic Abuse and the Government are doing nothing to help, it is time you spoke out
This site has been created as a form of protest against the people who work for the government, and who are supposedly in place to help victims of Domestic Violence or Abuse. As an example, imagine having a Counsellor from the Family Conciliation unit that comes into your home and mocks you openly, suggests that your abuser has rights and then writes a report that is admissable as a Court Document stating that an abuser can have more rights to live than their victims. This is clearly an injustice to any victim of abuse. Yet it really happens. Look at the page with a recent case history. I shall name nobody personally, although the names of the Family Conciliation people are freely available online.
Case Histories
At the moment. I have only one history I can share. That said, one is still one too many.
I am hoping that, if you feel you are also a victim of this sort of official neglect, you will contact me and let me know the situation. I assure you that I will ask no details and will cheerfully do my best to make these people accountable. I have an appointment with my MLA this coming week and will be discussing the entire situation with him. Everyone who contacts me will get a page on this site dedicated to them and to their case, and we will do all we can to get justice.
Let's face it, we all read of cases where a person goes nuts and murders his ex spouse and children. Winnipeg is the murder capital of Canada. One has to wonder how many cases like this are a direct result of people such as the family conciliation people failing to do their jobs.
Valuable links
I will, as I find them, publish links to sites that may be of use to victims of abuse, and also links to stories which show the level of abuse which is overlooked or ignored by the system.
Confidentiality Guaranteed
There is only one goal with this site, and that is to make the people who are in a position to influence the court do their jobs properly. Victims of abuse are in constant fear of their abusers, and they should not live in additional fear of the agencies there to protect them.
If you think you may be a victim, check the following out.
2. Do you find yourself making excuses or minimizing your partner's behavior?
3. Do you feel completely controlled by your partner?
4. Do you feel helpless, trapped, alone, and isolated?
5. Do you blame yourself for the violence?
6. Does your partner blame you and tell you that you are the cause of all his problems?
7. Do you blame the violence on stress, on drugs/alcohol, or a bad childhood?
8. Does your partner constantly accuse you of having affairs when he can't account for 100% of your time? Does he tell you jealousy is a sign of love?
9. Do you fear going home?
10. Are you limited in your freedom like a child? (Go to the store and come straight home. It should take you 15 minutes.)
11. Do you find yourself lying to hide your partner's real behavior (for example, saying you fell down the stairs when actually you were pushed)?
12. Are you embarrassed or humiliated by your partner in an effort to control your behavior, especially in public?
13. Does your partner abandon you, leave you places, or lock you out?
14. Does your partner hide your keys, mail, or other important papers?
